A week ago today, I outlined a brief description of each of the first four of the eight referral sources. I encouraged blog readers to spend the past week taking action in developing at least two of those referral sources and promised that this week I would explain the last four referral sources. * Remember, the more you learn about each referral source, the more referral sources you will develop; the more referral sources you develop, the more referrals you will get and the more your business will grow! &...
read moreLast week I posted a video blog featuring Referral Institute Trainer Cheryl Hansen talking about the opportunity to significantly increase the number of referrals you receive by developing more than just one of the eight referral sources. The fact is, the more you learn about each referral source, the more referral sources you will develop; the more referral sources you develop, the more referrals you will get and the more your business will grow!  ...
read moreIn this video, Cheryl Hansen, a Trainer and Franchisee with the Referral Institute, explains that most people tend to focus only on existing clients as their main source for business referrals and they neglect the seven other referral sources which they could be developing simultaneously to generate unlimited opportunity for new referred business! Cheryl highlights community service organizations and casual contacts as just a couple of commonly untapped referral sources and urges businesspeople to start developing al...
read moreBuilding a Power Team 03/22/12
Referral partnerships are a powerful element in an effective networking group. This informative and equally entertaining video by Lawrence Conyers of UK based Anson Corporate Media (you may remember the video of his I posted back in December about how to conduct effective one-to-one meetings) is all about building a Power Team of referral partners and, though it is geared toward members of BNI groups, the information works for all networking groups. Lawrence , who is not only an experienced networker but also a gi...
read moreSystems and Referral Marketing 02/09/12
It’s International Networking Week and one of the many ways I’m celebrating is by posting this video blog on how to network better and smarter with systems. In this short video , I talk to my good friend Bertrand McHenry, a Referral Institute Trainer and Franchisee, about how people who develop a system for referral marketing generate substantially more business through referrals. Watch this video to find out how creating a system for referrals can help you predict the income you will receive from ref...
read moreIf you’re not getting the amount of referrals you’d like to be getting, take a look at the support materials and techniques you’re currently using. Below are some effective ways to influence people to refer you. Some of these may not work for everyone. The idea is to select those you think you can apply in your own business or profession. Samples. If you have an opportunity to distribute your materials, do it. Bring products, samples, brochures, or a presentation book. Many networking gr...
read morePeople often ask me how to move a relationship with someone they just met to the point where the new contact feels comfortable passing them a referral. I always say that the best way to get to this next referral-passing stage depends in part on how you came into contact with a person in the first place. Let’s say you met while giving a brief presentation to a group of people who are in your target market. Assuming you did a good job, then you absolutely have the possibility of receiving a referral, even tho...
read moreWhat Are You Waiting For? 11/21/11
The best referral efforts I’ve seen happen by design, not by accident or wishful thinking. Many business people view word of mouth somewhat like the weather: “Sure, it’s important, but what can I do about it?” Referrals and word of mouth can be planned and nurtured. Anyone, including business owners, entrepreneurs, sales representatives, staff employees, even individuals serving in a volunteer capacity in any field, can accomplish plenty with a well-structured and systematically executed referral plan f...
read moreDo Men or Women Get More Referrals? 09/22/11
[Business Networking and Sex is scheduled to be released in January of 2012. Stay tuned to other topics from the book by visiting www.BusinessNetworkingAndSex.com.] Do women get a higher percentage of business from networking or do men? This is the lively discussion taking place between my Business Networking and Sex co-authors and I in this short video. What do you think? I’d love to get your opinion on the topic! After watching the video, leave YOUR opinion here. Share which gender you believe gets...
read moreAs a networker, there’s no question about whether or not your behavioral style is affecting your referrability–it IS. The question is, how can you learn to effectively communicate with a diverse array of other behavioral styles while maintaining your own style for an optimum outcome? In this video, Dawn Lyons (whom I consider to be one of the world’s leading experts on behavioral styles/profiles and referral networking), my partner in the Referral Institute, talks with me about how behavioral styl...
read moreIf you’re not familiar with Power Teams or Contact Spheres, they are two things that any networker aiming for maximum networking results will want to get very familiar with. I have just released a new book with my co-author, Lee Abraham, called Money on the Table which is all about how to use Power Teams and Contact Spheres to generate more referrals for your networking partners. Why should you take the time to learn how to get more referrals for those in your network? Because this will ultimately pay off i...
read moreThe Referral Process–Step 8 05/23/11
Today is the day big day that those of you who’ve been following my blog series on the referral process have been waiting for . . . the day I’m going to talk about the final step–the step we all anticipate most: Step 8–Closing the Deal. By the way, feel free to catch up on the previous steps in the easy, eight-step referral process at any time by reading my blog entries about steps 1 & 2; step 3; step 4; and steps 5, 6, & 7. Step 8. Close the Deal Now that you have your proposal do...
read moreIn my last blog, I discussed step 4 of the eight-step referral process and in the weeks prior to that, I went over steps 1, 2, and 3. Today I’m going to cover steps 5, 6, and 7. Step 5. Report Back to Your Source Report back to your referral source and let her know the outcome of your meeting (unless, of course, she went along with you). Ask her to follow up with the prospect to find out about his impression of you. Let her know how important it is for you to make her look good to the ...
read moreThe Referral Process–Step 4 05/09/11
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been explaining the easy, eight-step referral process in increments. Today I will be going over step 4 and if you’d like to review the previous steps I’ve already covered, simply click on each of the following links: step 1, step 2, and step 3. Step 4. Meet with the Referral Now comes the move you’ve been waiting for: your first meeting. You might close the deal on your first call, but it’s unlikely. Instead, you’re probably going to be getting a...
read moreThe Referral Process–Step 3 05/02/11
The referral process (CLICK HERE to read a short overview of the referral process) can be broken down into eight easy steps. In a blog entry I posted last Monday, I explained step 1 (Your Source Discovers a Referral) and step 2 (Research the Referral). Today, I am going to talk about step 3. Step 3. Check Back in with Your Referral Source After learning all you can about the prospect’s company through your outside research, it’s a good idea, especially if the referral appears to be complex or of very ...
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