When one of your business contacts passes you a new referral, does that mean the prospect is ready to hear a presentation on your product or service? Repeat after me . . . NO. Assume nothing. When an associate passes you a referral, say thanks, then start digging for more information. Exactly what does the prospect do? What products or services does he want from you? Will your offerings truly fulfill his needs? What is his behavioral style? What are his business goals? How large is his company? Don...
read moreThe truth is, if you choose a networking group that focuses entirely on your target market, chances are you’ll be in a group of people who are a lot like you. Sounds like a good thing, you say? Well, it’s not. A group that consists of a whole lot of people like you tends to hang out together in other settings and is likely to have a lot of the same contacts as you. This limits the size of your network, and the diversity as well. It’s good to have some people like you in your group, of co...
read moreHow Much do You Trust Advertising? 02/11/13
Nielsen recently did a survey regarding people’s “trust” in various forms of advertising (see the graph below). Remarkably, the two top categories of trust involved word of mouth! All other forms of advertising were substantially lower than the top two (word-of-mouth approaches). Furthermore, 82% of all forms of advertising (other than word of mouth) showed that more than half of all people didn’t trust that form of advertising much at all! The media often asks me why networking is so impo...
read moreMost people are involved in at least two types of formal networking groups. The first is intraprofessional networking, or “Knowledge Networking,” as Megatrends author John Naisbitt calls it. Knowledge Networks foster self-help, information exchange, improved productivity and work life, and shared resources, according to Naisbitt, who cited networking as one of the ten megatrends impacting our society. The second type of networking is interprofessional networking: multidisciplinary professionals and oc...
read moreThe Three Laws of Notable Networking 11/05/12
Over the last few decades, I’ve met individuals who have developed such incredible networking skills that they get almost 100 percent of their business through referrals. They’ve been successful at building a word-of-mouth-based business because they’re as committed to giving referrals as they are to following up on the referrals they get. What does it take to achieve results like these? There are three requirements or laws for becoming a Notable (or effective) Networker. Without applying thes...
read moreEstablishing a word-of-mouth, referral-based business sometimes requires getting people to come to “your cave” to learn more about your products and services. Throwing a business mixer is a great way to do this yet, I’ll admit, throwing a successful business mixer isn’t easy. However, if you remember that your primary purpose is to facilitate networking, you’ll be okay. Here are eight tips that will help you host an effective, successful business mixer: If you have a large enough o...
read moreWhat Are You Waiting For? 11/21/11
The best referral efforts I’ve seen happen by design, not by accident or wishful thinking. Many business people view word of mouth somewhat like the weather: “Sure, it’s important, but what can I do about it?” Referrals and word of mouth can be planned and nurtured. Anyone, including business owners, entrepreneurs, sales representatives, staff employees, even individuals serving in a volunteer capacity in any field, can accomplish plenty with a well-structured and systematically executed referral plan f...
read moreThe first edition of my book The World’s Best Known Marketing Secret, which details how to build business by referral, was released back in 1994 and went on to become an international bestseller. I am excited to announce that the 4th edition of the book was just published and my co-author Mike Macedonio and I have substantially rewritten the book and added a significant amount of information. Here is just a brief sample of what is outlined in the new book: The best way to grow your business Referrals and refe...
read moreIn order to run a successful word-of-mouth campaign, you need to build an arsenal of credibility-enhancing materials. You should always have these at your disposal to make the most of every networking opportunity. Below is a checklist of items you may already have available or wish to begin assembling, which can be used as collateral materials in developing your desired image. These are not ranked in a particular; they are all key components of the toolkit of a successful word-of-mouth campaign. Note: Please keep...
read moreThe "Friendly Skies" Are Back 01/27/11
Long lines, deteriorating service, flight attendants grabbing a beer and pulling the emergency exit handle to slide out onto the tarmac are part of our vision of airlines these days. However, I had an experience last week that was truly amazing in this day and age. My wife and I were flying on United from LAX to New Orleans for a business conference. Before we were about to land, Rebecca, the flight attendant, handed me a business card from the Captain. His name is Patrick Fletcher. On the back of Captain Fletc...
read moreTaking Charge 11/22/10
The best word-of-mouth programs I’ve seen happen by design, not by accident or wishful thinking. Unfortunately, many businesspeople view word of mouth somewhat like the weather: “Sure it’s important, but what can I do about it?” Based on more than two decades of research, observation, and practical experience, I’ve found that in addition to focusing on the important issue of customer service, the average businessperson has much to do in order to build a referral business. Word of mouth...
read moreIf you really want to succeed at networking, take a look at the following tips and insights: Notable Networkers are people who are skilled at networking and committed to the idea that givers gain. By helping other businesses get new clients or customers, they get new business sent their way. The key to building a word-of-mouth-based business is mutual support, not necessarily friendship. Organizations that network effectively provide opportunities to develop and exchange quality business referrals. Being a member of...
read moreSmart, enterprising businesspeople know the importance of networking and how it is a huge opportunity to increase word-of-mouth and gain business referrals. However, one of the biggest mistakes people can make is failing to follow through. One of my employees recently told me a story that should serve as an important lesson to all of us on how networking without follow-through is nothing more than a waste of time. Note: The names in this story have been changed to protect the innocent . . . and the guilty. My emp...
read moreGet to Know a Knowledge Network 04/19/10
Professional associations, or knowledge networks, have been around longer than almost any other kind of group, from the medieval guilds to crafts associations to today’s professional groups and industry associations. The primary purpose is for the exchange of information and ideas, whether intraindustry or interindustry. Some of these groups limit membership to their own industry, but quite a few groups that represent industries other than your own will allow you to join as an associate member (as oppo...
read moreIf you want to develop an effective word-of-mouth campaign, you’ll need to have an arsenal of credibility-enhancing materials at your disposal to make the most of every networking opportunity. Below is a checklist of items you may already have available or wish to begin assembling, which can be used as collateral materials in developing your desired image. Testimonial letters from satisfied clients Photos of yourself and your office facilities, equipment and products Photos of your key customers Photos of awa...
read moreOver the years, I’ve run into countless people who believe that joining groups and organizations and becoming active by volunteering, taking on responsibilities and working side-by-side with other people on a common goal will cause people to get to know them and refer business to them. However, this is not how things work. Granted, it’s easy to think that if you rub elbows with someone long enough he or she will spontaneously start sending you business opportunities. But that’s really nothing more...
read moreHave a Good Story… Share It! 10/05/09
Before television there was radio. Before radio there were books. And before books there were storytellers. No matter what the medium–stone tablets, movies, grocery store tabloids, the internet–the story is central. A good story stays with people and compels them to share it with others. It’s as true today as it was 2000 years ago–and it’s especially true of success stories. Everyone likes to hear them; everyone likes to have one. Do you see how this aligns perfectly with word-of-mouth m...
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